Recently, I was thinking about my social life. Back in my high school, I was a pretty introvert and a loner. sometimes the popular kids in my high school teased me due to my quietness and reluctantcy to mingle with the others.I actually didnt have some alay/rebellious phase than the most of the kid in my high school and that what makes me didn’t really want to plunge myself into the community pool. Shinta(she’s one of my close friend) also told me that I am straight, too goody-two-shoes, never had any urge to do some rebellious thing like the other kids do. So, when everyone said that the happiest and remarkable moment of our life is in high school, apparently not for me.
I think i can be a social butterfly if i want to! That’s what I said after I graduated from high school and continue my study for bachelor degree. I am learning, and practicing more social interaction with my new friends. Miraculously, it worked. I never thought of that, I think I was quite popular during my time in the university, my life literally changed. I met a lot of friends, Yes, some are very close and it feels like a family and we are encouraging and helping each other. I am happy, and I will elaborate more about my circle of friendship. I have about three realm of friendship;
Bercel’s
It’s sounds weird when we heard this word, it doesn’t care about any elegancy nor intellectual side of people but it tell the story of a humiliating accident that happened to one of its member and what the most important things from this realm is about joyful and cherish moment, jokes, all about fun. Started from a group of five in the first semester and grew up into 20 person and still growing. This realm perfect for a guy like me, this realm flocked with some joker, jester, comic and else. This is the perfect place when I want to laugh and entertain myself in the social life, the joke is hilarious and livened up my life a lot than before, we are partying really hard. Although, sometimes i got irritated by those jokes. But overall it’s a real fun and keeps my balance in check. The person in it, Jembri the Joker, Dirga the Chief, Kiwil the Trouty-mouth, Simon the Trouble maker, Sawy the Wise,Nabu the Cranky, Cahyo the frugal, Jaka the Don Juan, Daniel the Model, Adul the King of Samarinda, Tebo the frowzy, Gilang the Hard-worker, Baut the gamer, Lika the Secretary, Ajeng the Girl next door, and the others that i couldn’t spell the name to its massive members that still growing to this day.
Rangers
This realm is the best place when I want to get serious and share my feelings (yes I do have a feeling) about the future. They are a bunch of people who are really serious on their life and always think for the long-term plan and apparently I sometimes became the joker for this realms. Dian for example, she is a brainer. She continue her study for an international studies master degrees in Taiwan, she got accepted in one of the best universities that specialize in political studies in the country. Then, there’s Vitri, the oldest yet have a very young soul. She worked for ASEAN Secretariat, and recently she got a new and promising job for a project between ASEAN and the EU. What about the other three, Putri she works as a marketing officer in a state-owned company. Gia, hmm she has a Turkish boyfriend that really looked like Shia Lebouf( I don’t know how to spell his name) called Mert. And last but not least, there’s Praja the one who still searching for his true identity.
GLOBAL CITIZEN CORPS INDONESIA
I stumbled into this community because of Mia, the girl that I knew in a Kids Film Festival, we were volunteering for the events. This realm flocked with tons of high quality people, giving a very constructive nuance for each member. What we do are giving something for the less fortunate people, or spreading awareness about HIV/AIDS, Human Rights, Gender Equality and else. You see, in this realm, there’s no negative side. No poking around and no bad words. Because all of them are a really good people, and I feel that we are the minority, some are an outcast yet have a remarkable achievement. This is the great place to develop your personality, your understanding, and skill. But, because the members are spread across the city of Jakarta, the meetings were not as intensive as the other two realms and some already left the city, even the country.
I am happy with my social life. im changing into a better persons, you see human will not stop to evolve.
now i am enjoying a good balance life.